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I heal me, for you! You heal you, for me!
My deepest heart's desire is to match my heart beat with the beat of the universe; to match my nature with mother nature.
Kylie {ky-lee}
- of Australian origin, deriving from the indigenous word 'kiley' or 'kila' meaning 'curved returning stick' or 'boomerang'.
I invite you to get to know me a little so you can be sure I am the right fit for you.
xo Kylie
Who am I without my story?
I am a spark of source energy with the deep desire to impact you in a way that ignites and re-connects you with your inner spark for life.
When this impact is made, it gives me a sense of fulfilment of my soul and life purpose.
I share myself with you below so you can feel into who I am and ensure that there is a resonance for travelling with you on your healing and self-discovery journey. Knowing more about me can offer you clarity for your choice.
Sharing your intimate life details with someone you know little about can be quite confronting. Often we don't know who our therapists, counsellors, healing practitioners are and this doesn't sit right with me.
When you don't know much about who is helping you, something feels like it's missing - blind trust is imposed upon you as the client. You create an imaginary version of the practitioner with your own assumptions and sometimes false perceptions. You anxiously hope you get someone that gives you what you are seeking - without it actually being said or discussed.
Trusting your choice of the right practitioner can be affirmed when you get a sense of who they are beyond what they can offer you professionally. In a world where genuine safe human connection is rare and uninjured - this is very important for your healing journey.
Trust your inner knowing and listen to the whisper of your Soul.
Here is me...
Who am I?
🤍I am a Soul, a fellow traveller in this life mustering up the courage to go deeper into my own quest to find out why I am here, why am I the way that I am and what I am here to offer this life.
🤍I continue to learn, un-learn, re-learn, de-condition, re-member my Self, and re-discover who I am and who I want to be for myself and with you.
🤍It is from this place within that I am available to be with you on your own journey back home…back to your Self.
I am not about...
🤍Superficial, inauthentic chit chat.
🤍Keeping up appearances.
🤍Being perfect, polished or pretentious.
🤍Getting on the latest social buzz or trend.
🤍Celebrity, influencer, guru, pop culture worship.
🤍Doing things that don't align with my way of living.
🤍All love and light.
🤍Hiding my own hurts or traumas (wounds).
🤍Bucket lists or overachieving.
🤍Virtue signalling or over identification with social or political labels, groups, ideologies or narratives.
🤍Dishonouring my own nervous system and core needs - any longer.
🤍Upholding lies, narratives and untruths.
🤍Pretending I know it all.
🤍Pretending I've got my life together.
🤍Keeping my head in the sand about the many (dark) world wide agendas.
My favourite place for downtime...
🤍Being at the beach, near a natural body of water or being able to see mountains in the horizon.
🤍Taking a break sitting on my front lawn with my naked feet on the grass (earthing) and the sun on my skin admiring my flower garden.
🤍In the warmer months my husband and I enjoy getting out of the city to see our local area practicing our car camping skills.
I never imagined I would...
🤍Get married at the late age of 39 and then be happily married in a secure functioning relationship.
🤍Have 4 step children.
🤍Float above the earth - and love it - in a basket under a hot air balloon.
🤍Ride in a helicopter over ancient Hawaiian valleys.
🤍Visit Hawaii twice in a lifetime.
🤍Visit the Colosseum, Louvre, Vatican or see the statue of David in Florence or walk the streets of Venice.
🤍Enjoy the most expensive, memorable delicious $20 coffee at Piazza San Marco in Venice.
🤍View Paris from the top of the Eiffel Tower.
🤍Not have my own children.
🤍Be scared of turtles - I know! This surprised me too.
🤍Live in Brisbane for this long - 20+ years.
🤍Have the longest standing relationship I've ever had be with an animal guardian - my feline Tilly (18+ years).
In a world where genuine safe human connection is scarce - it is very important for you to get a sense of who your practitioner is.
My unique design...
🤍My Human Design energy type is that of an emotional Manifestor (Initiator) with a 1/3 profile.
🤍Astrologically I am Cancerian, born on the middle day of the year in the year of the Fire Snake with Life Path 6.
🤍The last time I completed my Enneagram I was a 5.
🤍In terms of psychotherapy and holistic counselling insights, my attachment style is a combination of anxious-avoidant – although you may not notice it.
🤍I've also done Myer's Briggs and a few other profiling systems over the years.
My natural inclination is...
🤍Trust the ebb and flow of my emotional (regulated nervous system) responses to life.
🤍Nurture others in unique creative ways offering my depth of wisdom.
🤍Ensure I have quality alone time to rest, restore and self reflect.
🤍Ensure my health remains optimal.
🤍Do deep research on topics that I am personally interested and invested in.
🤍Experiment by putting my knowledge into action by trial and error.
🤍Share my knowledge with others by informing with my voice.
My favourite topics...
🤍Natural healing and wellness - the ancient forgotten old world style of healing.
🤍Human Design and Gene Keys - of course.
🤍Holistic counselling methods, psycho-therapy techniques, traditional and ancestral healing practices.
🤍Metaphysics and spirituality - how the body, mind, emotions, spirit, soul relate and are connected within each of us.
🤍Occult (hidden, not dark) esoteric knowledge and truths of the energetic intelligence of humans and our realm - including the true history and nature of our realm (it's pretty fascinating and not what we have been told).
My dreams yet to come true...
🤍A quaint cosy cottage as a place to welcome my clients for their healing sessions.
🤍To be a sought after, authentic and impactful soul based healer with a successful business, offering my unique style of healing to others.
🤍Bigger house and land space so I can have my own chickens, more rose bushes and lots of flower gardens.
🤍A cute A-frame van for extra comfort when we go camping on weekends.
🤍More holiday time with my husband - we travel well together and he works too much.
🤍To be so Soul aligned and authentic that without effort my energy attracts and inspires those who want to learn from my wisdoms.
My daily rituals
🤍Launch each day with natural sunlight, a kiss, a coffee and cooked breakfast with my lovely husband.
🤍Feed the feline - because she demands it with persistence.
🤍Check on my flower garden - especially to smell the blooming roses in Spring and Summer.
🤍Close each day by winding down with my husband, minimise blue light after sunset, a kiss and a cuddle.
🤍Take my natural supplements before bedtime at 9.30pm.
🤍Somewhere in there I feed the feline again.
🤍Read more here about my wellness habits and rituals.
The music I listen to...
🤍My own sound healing bowls (crystal and Tibetan), Koshi chimes.
🤍Soothing sounds from many artists. Genres of coastal chill, spiritual, folk, kirtan, classical, alternative and more.
🤍Binaural beats, isochronic or other healing Hz music.
What I am working on...
🤍Letting go of old limiting thoughts, beliefs and emotions - this is ongoing like a never ending piece of string.
🤍Finding and strengthening my voice, my message by sharing myself on socials.
🤍Unconditionally trusting my Self, Spirit and the whispers of my Soul.
🤍Doing more physical activity - I too procrastinate or get stuck indoors or on devices.
🤍Seeing life as a fun game to be playful with.
🤍Mastering my own unique Human Design and authentic Self to be a powerful, impactful and compassionate wounded healer.
My creative outlet...
🤍Crafting - making colourful junk journals, notebooks and ephemera. It's a messy craft to recycle used items and I love that.
🤍Making soap, candles, sewing clothes and other items, gardening, other DIY apothecary concoctions.
🤍Thrift shopping for fun and upcycling projects.
🤍See more here about my creative side and projects.
Places I've travelled to...
🤍Singapore
🤍Bali - Kuta
🤍France - Paris
🤍Italy - Rome, Florence, Venice
🤍Hawaii - Maui, Honolulu
🤍New Zealand - North Island
🤍Nearly all of Australia - it's a big continent and I've been to all states and capital cities and more.
In my spare time...
🤍You will find me at my happy place called home.
🤍Trying to tame the fluff and fur from my feline which become tumbleweeds in the house.
🤍Listening to a podcast or watching a video or masterclass to learn more about my favourite topics.
🤍Teaching myself about how to use technology (there is so much) to run my business.
🤍Updating my website (again) or learning how to do something new related to it.
From My Heart to Yours
For a deeper dive into my own journey I share a series of (digital) journal entries, personal contemplations and insights that you may like to peruse and feel into.
Relating to your fellow soul traveller brings a sense of resonance, a common thread, a sigh of relief that even those who have trained in their profession also have their ups and downs.
My journey to Counselling & Human Design
I’ve quietly always had a vision of who I thought I wanted to be when ‘I grow up’ and what I wanted to bring to others/the world, yet for several decades it was buried deep, deep down.
I believed for far too long that it was merely a childlike fantasy that would never be realised – to become who I really am and do what I want to do.
That changed.
Read more here...
For most of my adult working life I've spent it working in the corporate sector. My first job was in my home town of Mackay straight out of completing high school grade 12. After four years of that, I moved to Brisbane.
For the next two decades or so, I worked in various areas and industries, commencing in state government human resources then moving to the banking sector, a range of private businesses and a few others in the roles of administration and IT project coordination.
I never truly found this work fulfilling, always thinking something was wrong with me because I had no real corporate career aspirations or desire to identify myself in that world like I saw others doing.
I felt I never really ''fit in''. I didn't care to ''climb the ladder'' or seek the life of ''a powerful corporate female''. I tried, but something was always missing and inauthentic.
In my late 20’s I had a calling to pursue learning Traditional Old Style Hawaiian Lomi Lomi massage and practiced this as a home-based business for several years whilst working full time and then part time. This nurturing call within me has never left and now it has morphed into deepening my knowledge and skills with Holistic Counselling, Human Design, sound healing, natural wellness and more.
Whilst working full time, I completed my formal studies of a Certificate of Holistic Counselling in 2022. As of March 2023, I quietly decided to end my time in the corporate game and align my personal interests to pursue completing the Diploma of Holistic Counselling.
In 2024 I came across Human Design and decided to pursue training in this modality to add it to my knowledge base and experience as I saw it as a compliment to Holistic Counselling and my pursuit to fulfil my own purpose.
I continue to learn and curate my knowledge, skills and interests. And interestingly my Human Design profile is a 1/3 - 1 being someone who loves to learn and investigate with the 3 - being someone who learns by trial and error.
We are who we are even when we think we aren't.
My Autobiography
Writing a 3000+ word autobiography was part of my holistic counselling course curriculum and I share with you a brief outline below for you to see how my life has been shaped and where I come from.
What would be in your autobiography?
Read more here...
I am the eldest of two daughters with a younger sister to the same parents, born on the middle day of the year in the late 1970’s and raised in the eastern coastal town of Mackay, Queensland, Australia.
My mother is the seventh born child of 11 and the youngest of twins. There are nine daughters and two sons to the same parents. My maternal grandmother was one of two children, originally from Cairns moving to Mackay in her early adult years aspiring to be a nurse. My grandfather was one of seven children from Mackay with cane farming background.
My father is the youngest of three boys and I’ve been told was conceived on the boat journey from Germany to Australia. His family - mother, father, two older brothers, mother’s siblings and mothers' parents – all immigrated from Germany by boat to Australia in the 1950’s to establish a new life abroad and explore opportunities.
Each family has now grown, with me being the fourth grandchild of 27 on my mother’s side, with the number of great grandchildren superseding to near 30 to date. I am the third grandchild of four on my father’s side.
I am lucky to be married near 10 years to my loving husband with our marriage being secure functioning. I don't have any children and my husband has four that are grown up.
I have two adult nephews and one teenage niece which I adore and lovingly spent as much time as I could having fun with these souls in their childhoods.
I live outside the city of Brisbane, Australia with my {immortal} feline, Tilly. I have been Tilly’s primary servant for over 18 years now, she never seems to age a day and you could say is one of my longest relationships outside immediate family.
A few other moments that shaped my life...
My parents took my sister and I on a travelling road trip from Mackay all the way across the country to Perth in my first year of school. Mum and dad were looking for seasonal work in a new location.
When we arrived back home to Mackay, I attended a small country school (near 70 students) outside of town by local sugar mill until primary school completed at Year 7. We lived in a cute crooked timber workers cottage that had frogs in the toilet and enjoyed our summers with wet cyclone seasons and the 'black snow', as we called it - when they used to burn the cane fields before harvesting and the ash would rain down on everything. The fires were so close we could feel the heat at our back door.
My parents separated and divorced at the end of my primary school days which contributed to our (Mum, me and sister) move into town at the beginning of my high school days. This high school was huge (hundreds of students) compared to primary school and took quite a bit of an adjustment for me.
I was a dancer - trained in ballet and jazz for several years with a local dancing school family that my mother worked for. My sister trained in ballet and tap. I think this is where my love of sparkly things stems from. I have also tried my hand at playing the violin in high school string orchestra. My Opa tried to get my sister and I to learn German and the piano accordion when we were very young (German heritage) but this unfortunately didn't stick.
My first job started one week after I finished Grade 12. My best friends father was a financial advisor and invited me to work with him and his secretary. I worked with them for the next four years and learned many insights of the working world and sadly my best friend, his daughter, moved away to go to university.
At age 22 I made a decision to leave home, my home town and country on my own and travel to America to meet someone I met online - yes all the way back in 1999. I stayed in the country for six months as that was as long as the visa allowed. It wasn't your typical adventurous holiday or travels - my being a shy 20 something introvert, I lived with my friend and his family in a small country town in the mid west - corn country. I had a wonderful time, got to see, touch, feel snow and learned a lot about myself through the experience. I cried all the way home on the plane when I departed - that's 20+hours.
I've experienced my own dark night of the soul which seemed to go on forever (near a decade) but alas it came to an end before I turned 30. I didn't have any professional help during this time - it was possible luck, a particular deep pivotal moment and conscious effort that got myself out of it. In hindsight and through the lens of my Holistic Counselling training, this time in my life had all the hallmarks of someone who had deep childhood attachment wounds and needs that didn't get met. I'm still working on identifying and meeting these needs day by day.
I was in America when my first nephew was born and couldn't wait to see him when I got back home. I was present for the birth of my second nephew and niece. These are treasured moments in my life - that my sister generously shared such a personal experience with her family. Life really is a miracle.
I've experienced my share of heartbreak and melancholy with a handful of relationships before I met my husband; 2 decades of quietly grieving not having children; never finding my niche or place in the corporate world and I'm sure there is more I could add.
We all have interesting life stories don't we. What we see on the surface is not who we are underneath.
Qualifications:
Human Design School, Emily Shine Global, 2024
Diploma of Holistic Counselling, The Awakening Group, 2024 (in progress)
Certificate of Holistic Counselling, The Awakening Group, 2022
Level 1 Crystal Singing Bowl, Hot Tropical Yoga, 2022
Level 3 Lomi Lomi Massage, Traditional Old Style Lomi Lomi Massage, 2009
Level 1 & 2 Lomi Lomi Massage, Traditional Old Style Lomi Lomi Massage, 2008
Trigger Point Therapy, Traditional Old Style Lomi Lomi Massage, 2008
Self Development:
Uncovering Hidden Trauma: Transgenerational Healing Approaches with Peter A Levine PhD, Diane Poole Heller PhD, and Efu Nyaki, Trauma Solutions, 2024
Landmark Education Forum & Advanced Forum + various seminars, 2015
Essential Oil Workshop, Perfect Potion, 2009
You Can Heal Your Life, Louise Hay workshop, year unknown
"Who am I, you ask?
I am made from all the people I've encountered
and all the things I have experienced.
Inside, I hold the laughter of my friends, the arguments with my parents, the chattering of young children,
and the warmth from kind strangers.
Inside there are stitching's from cracked hearts, bitter words from heated arguments, music that gets me through,
and emotions I cannot convey.
I am made from all these people and moments.
That is who I am.
- Ming D Liu.
We are each on our own paths, finding our way on our own
and at times with others.
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